Massive gay japanese manga

Being homosexual, finding this collection at my local library instantly piqued my interest. Yes, it's racier than the content I typically study, but I'm more versed in BL manga, which is primarily written by straight women for unbent women. This manga I'm more familiar with does have a gay audience, but because of the cultural framing surrounding homosexuality in Japan, a lot of interactions in BL and even in the gay manga here revolve around an explicit lack of consent. Homosexuality is still frowned upon in Japan, viewed as forbidden and dirty. But the men of stories still want to do it and express themselves that way. It usually involves a seme forcing himself on an uke in BL, the result a scene more akin to assault than sex. But bashing that isn't going to do much; that would be ethnocentric and disregard the fact that for BL narratives, women are writing them to escape the patriarchal labels forced upon them by men. In my brain, as long as these gay stories are handled well by women, I will respect them whether in