Seeking gay roommate

Gay and nervous about having a roommate. Advice?

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HI all,
I’m moving out in the fall and into a dorm. The thing is, I’ve only lived as an only minor. Not to speak I haven’t had sleepovers or overnight summer camps, but I’ve never lived with someone else like a roommate for an extended period of hour. 7 days max, and only when I was younger. The other thing is that I’ve recently come out as Gay. I’m absolutely terrified of having a roommate and/or making them uncomfortable about me being LGBTQ. I really want to do the university experience with a dorm and roommate and such… I just hope they’re not homophobic. Has anyone else out there been in a similar situation? I’ve dealt with homophobia in the past on a smaller scale. I’m really looking forward to my college life but I also totally grasp that there are people out there that may be uncomfortable with me being LGBTQ.

Do I openly disclose that I’m gay from the start? I feel like I should?

Would love counsel on this as this is one of the many reasons I didn’t do campus housing as soon as I started college.

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